Heavy rains remind us of challenges in life. Never ask for a lighter rain, just pray for a better umbrella. That is Attitude.
When flood comes, fish eats ants and when flood recedes, ants eat fish.
Only time matters. Just hold on. God gives opportunity to every one.
In a theatre when drama plays, you opt for front seats. When film is
screened, you opt for rear seats. Your position in life is only
relative. Not absolute.
For making soap, oil is required. But to clean oil, soap is required. This is the irony of life.
Life is not about finding the right person. But creating the right
relationship. It's not how we care in the beginning. But how much we
care till the end.
Every problem has (N+1) solutions: where N is the number of solutions that you have tried and 1 is that you have not tried.
When you are in problem, don't think it's the End. It is only a Bend in life.
Difference between Man and God is God gives, gives and forgives. Man gets, gets and forgets.
Only two category of people are happy in life - the Mad and the Child.
Be Mad to achieve a goal. Be a Child to enjoy what you achieved.
Never play with the feelings of others. You may win. But loose the person for lifetime.
There is no Escalator to success. Only Steps!!
Observing But Not Absorbing
To observe means we take a new,
appropriate mental position in whatever situation, or in whatever
relationship, we find ourselves. Observation is a silent skill -- a
skill we need to learn if we are to assess clearly what positive changes
are needed to be made in the self in a particular situation or
relationship.
If we fail to learn this art of observing, we are
likely to react and absorb ourselves in the negativity of the person,
or event. We
get lost in the quicksand
of 'what's wrong?' which prevents us from putting things right. As we
absorb and fill ourselves with negative emotion, we become heavy and
remain helplessly rooted to the ground. The gravity of overload does
not allow us to rise above a situation and to understand the reality of
what is happening. As a result, we lose perspective and overreact.
If we wish to understand how the mental position of observation gives
us the power of perspective, we can look at the example of the bird and
the ant. The ant, extremely busy, running here and there, scrambling
over everything in its rush to find and collect food, will see only what
is in front of its nose. The bird, on the other hand, leaves the earth
and, as it flies higher and higher, starts to see the bigger picture,
compared to when it was on the ground, or on the branch of a tree.
Seeing the whole picture, it has a completely different perspective. It
is only then that it can truly see where to go and what to do. When we
get absorbed in a situation or relationship, we lose perspective, we are
like the ant, we get too involved in the details, missing the obvious,
and cannot imagine, or think of other possibilities.
