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Wednesday, February 22, 2023

My Name is Sreeram Kannimangalam Ramaswamy

 My Name is "Sreeram Kannimangalam Ramaswamy".

What does a name stand for?

In this crowded world, the full name (First + Middle + Sur Name) can stand for our identity?

An immediate question arises, does an identity hold any value?

Yes identity (the distinguishing character or personality of an individual : individuality)holds many values. We do have different identities depending on the environment like personal life (family or friends) and professional life (corporate or consulting roles).

Given that it is a multi currency with many values and denominations, are we governed in identifying our core identities?

"YES", there should be time judiciously spend for self introspection, self improvement and self efficacy.

If you feel its a "NO", kindly understand as per Greek scholar Mr Socrates "The unexamined life is not worth living".

As many say "Perceptions differs with distance", do we need to correct our identities for others?

No, (My take) as long as you are not in conflict (NIL Cognitive Dissonance) with your own identity and it does not bring difficulties for others (universe).

My Identity is "Sreeram Kannimangalam Ramaswamy".

45 days of self learning

 Day 1: Do something for someone else like friends, relatives.

Day 2: Stop striving to achieve.

Day 3: Put yourself in someone else's shoes.

Day 4: Discover your purpose and enjoy the journey.

Day 5: Stop getting the attention and focus it on other people.

Day 6: Give thanks to everyone and everything.

Day 7: Exercise more of the P word. (Patience)

Day 8: Be the first to reach out after an argument.

Day 9: Just try to Say No. Avoid steps with no value addition.

Day 10: React to good news with genuine enthusiasm.

Day 11: Try not to procrastinate. (Use pomodro technique)

Day 12: Soak up the wisdom of another person.

Day 13: Journal about three new things you are grateful for.

Day 14: Try not be perfect.

Day 15: Exercise for 15 minutes.

Day 16: Focus on your breathing.

Day 17. Express kindness through a text or email.

Day 18: Find something or someone that will make you laugh.

Day 19: Deal with a problem you've been neglecting.

Day 20: Build up your faith. Practice self empathy.

Day 21: Have lunch with someone, and listen to that person selflessly.

Day 22: Chillax you are mid way, flaunt yourself. Try to journal your experience.

Day 23: Say ,"Hello" at three strangers.

Day 24: Reframe (Assumptions, Fear, Negative to Positive talk)

Day 25: Readjust the strict rules you impose on yourself.

Day 26: Relax and be more spontaneous.

Day 27: Spend some quality time with an elderly person.

Day 28: Spend some quality time with family.

Day 29: Spend some quality time with friends.

Day 30: Learn a new skill/technique.

Day 31: Help a person who is needy 

Day 32: Learn Story telling to teach others about story telling

Day 33: What impact did I make on the lives of others?

Day 34: Who did I serve and make better?

Day 35: See reflections on Nature/Universe in you.

Day 36: Pursue an activity that brings you peace.

Day 37: Be on water or Juice diet

Day 38: Watch at an animal behavior.

Day 39: Breathe slowly.

Day 40: Look sharp at an object 3 meter far for 30 seconds .

Day 41: Look at your hands closer on the lines drawn inside your palm.

Day 42: Count 3 blessing before to bed.

Day 43: Count 3 blessing on sun rise.

Day 44: Try to count 16 hours of the day's wake up time. (Note the time like 1, 2 in the clock)

Day 45 : Write a summary journal on the 44 days activities. Let's start Day 1


Note :- This 45 days routine if followed 8 times, a year can be covered with 5 days to spare. 5 days extra activities are as listed below.

Day 361: Share your positive experiences with friends and family and watch your joy increase.

Day 362: Do something fun.

Day 362 : Be duty conscious. Look at Sun and Moon on their duty consciousness.

Day 363 : Take some quiet time alone to reflect.

Day 364 : Look at a situation (Yearly followed up activity) by taking in the whole picture.

Day 365 : Refine the 45 days activities and let us start a new year.